tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9112925820320944611.post3409221709290473712..comments2024-03-19T03:18:54.509-06:00Comments on Hot Chicks Dig Smart Men: SubjectivityJaniecehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06223994862015217811noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9112925820320944611.post-86396846332573583732011-08-22T17:10:32.751-06:002011-08-22T17:10:32.751-06:00I know exactly what you mean, Phiala. It's a ...I know exactly what you mean, Phiala. It's a big turn on for me too. If a guy is good at his job... whoooeee... (It actually applies to women, too, but more along the friendly lines.)<br />I can be friends with someone without knowing if they're good at doing something (you're right, being a good talker is a different category altogether), but when I do see someone excelling at what they do, hell-O!Anne C.https://www.blogger.com/profile/09444051201220766948noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9112925820320944611.post-53012444225351863972011-08-22T15:44:50.702-06:002011-08-22T15:44:50.702-06:00Um, yes. Douchebaggery is definitely off the table...Um, yes. Douchebaggery is definitely off the table.Janiecehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06223994862015217811noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9112925820320944611.post-82964381694704529992011-08-22T15:41:38.387-06:002011-08-22T15:41:38.387-06:00Being a Douchebag is definitely a dealbreaker.
In...Being a Douchebag is definitely a dealbreaker.<br /><br />In any context.<br />Just thought I'd make myself clear.The Mechanicky Galhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00301818656158916179noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9112925820320944611.post-29561421538842204892011-08-22T12:24:58.267-06:002011-08-22T12:24:58.267-06:00Oh, not everything, or I'd have to spend all m...Oh, not <i>everything</i>, or I'd have to spend all my time alone! But something, preferably more than one thing.Phialahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05604909119508288912noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9112925820320944611.post-39171349741691591192011-08-22T12:10:33.350-06:002011-08-22T12:10:33.350-06:00Hm...competence.
I agree, Phiala, there's a b...Hm...<em>competence.</em><br /><br />I agree, Phiala, there's a big attraction there. Although I think it's probably too much to ask for someone to be competent in every field, all the time. But competence in <em>something?</em> That's a subset of being SMART, one of my key criteria.Janiecehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06223994862015217811noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9112925820320944611.post-2385446269669528202011-08-22T11:36:49.471-06:002011-08-22T11:36:49.471-06:00Shemar Moore, yum! I'm a Criminal Minds fan, a...Shemar Moore, yum! I'm a <i>Criminal Minds</i> fan, and enjoy watching him, but I think Matthew Gray Gubler is adorable too. (I didn't know who Jason Momoa was; pop culture is so not my strength.) <br /><br />Beyond the eye candy, Neil Gaiman is a long-time celebrity crush. I have a second celebrity crush, but am uncomfortable naming that person in public because I know them personally and would really hate to come up on someone's Google search saying so. <br /><br />I agree mostly with your list of criteria, but my big thing at the moment is <b>competence</b>. Doing stuff, figuring out how to do stuff, not just talking endlessly about how one should do stuff. <br /><br />Competence. <br /><br />Try. Fail. Fail better next time.Phialahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05604909119508288912noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9112925820320944611.post-24660007942468971162011-08-22T11:31:52.769-06:002011-08-22T11:31:52.769-06:00Mrs. B - I KNEW I liked you! John DeLancie, yum.
...Mrs. B - I <i>KNEW</i> I liked you! John DeLancie, yum. <br /><br />So, my list would add Harrison Ford. And after seeing <i>Contact</i> again last night, probably Matthew McConaughey as well. <br /><br />Unfortunately, Patrick Swayze is no longer with us.WendyB_09https://www.blogger.com/profile/03788918629240949526noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9112925820320944611.post-82336766705841877662011-08-22T09:44:01.700-06:002011-08-22T09:44:01.700-06:00You ladies have good taste in men! Jason Momoa and...You ladies have good taste in men! Jason Momoa and Johnny Depp ~ mmmmmmm. Neil deGrasse Tyson, well, I just can't imagine any woman on earth not seriously crushing on the guy. I'd add John deLancie as my secret drool-inducing admiree ~ and the fact that he's recently grown a goatee just adds to the allure. <br /><br />Mr B has never read for pleasure and that's not a deal breaker for me. He's the yin to my yang. He's not prone to flights of fancy or sitting around contemplating "what if...?" I kind of nudge him into at least thinking about some of the more unanswerable questions; he keeps me from living in my head too much.<br /><br />When I find out a man seems to have a good sense of humor, social consciousness, integrity, guts, and the brains to express those beliefs intelligently, I can find them attractive no matter what they look like. <br /><br />Why do I feel like I should add <i>likes long walks on the beach and must love animals</i>?Gristle McThornbodyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02975916963346215706noreply@blogger.com